Erhm ok, am terribly incompetent with technology. Can someone pls teach me how to blog a video from You Tube? I keep getting an error message everytime I try it.... *huh*
How is it that guys who randomly bump back into old female friends again after years of having not seen them, flirt and hit on them in the same breath?? Please enlighten me - WHY??? I barely even recognise the chap since we were these bunch of geeks in secondary school math tuition class, and the fella's first words to me are - "Are you MARRIED?? Oh, still single? Hey, you look great now!" And before I knew it, he quicky follows with - "Hey, I will call you out for a drink sometime soon, ok???". All of 30 seconds - that's how long it took him (the rest of the conversation were just variations of this theme). I was trying my hardest to mask how unimpressed I was, just to save the chap some face in front of a busy MRT station.
Could we not just enjoy that one moment, without an agenda, of just catching up as old friends?? And perhaps just reminisence of the good old days, at least for say longer than 30 seconds?? How have you been? Who else have you caught up with recently? Or even GOSSIP about some of the weird people we've known in seondary school!!! Cripes.....
Get a life you guys..... seriously.
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Maybe he was genuinely trying to be friendly? It is natural to ask if you are married given that you probably haven't met in like 10 years or so, and you are both what is deemed to be of marriageable age. And asking you out for a drink could be just to catch up what!
But then again, I think your point is a fair one. Guys do tend to hit on girls quite quickly. But only the attractive ones. So way to go Pam!
I'd ask if a friend's married but not as my opening question! U never know if it is sensitive. I thought people usually asked How are you first, no?
Anwyays, no need to over-analyze lah, we're not writing a book on relationships or understanding the opposite sex here.... *hahahaa*
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